A person who lives quite close to me has deteriorated of late. Her behaviour is consistent with some of the features of dementia. I've known this person in excess of 30 years and there's a difference between "neighbourliness" and friendships-and it's okay.I've put some words together
Gwendoline Looks at The Skies
Detached. Her house is detached
and lonely
She still lives there and only,
Gwendoline looks at the skies.
Detached. He is detached
Gwendoline looks at the skies.
Detached. He is detached
and lonely
So many plans but the thing is only,
Gwendoline looks at the skies
Detached. It's what she
has become
It's what he has become.
And as he watches their
Plans fracture
He hopes that something might distract her
and help her once more to be
It's arrived!
So has she!
Plans fracture
He hopes that something might distract her
and help her once more to be
It's arrived!
So has she!
Then gone...
and he can see in her face
that she looks for that
Place
Feeling
And time
The connection, just one
But one that connects to cruel seconds then gone.
Gone.
The connection, just one
But one that connects to cruel seconds then gone.
Gone.
He slumps in a garden chair
Carefully placed strategically where
He can keep her safe in his eyes.
And cups his forehead
In grief beyond disguise.
In grief beyond disguise.
And Gwendoline?
Gwendoline looks at the skies
Very deep and touching. Seeing someone you love dearly... Lost and where? In the world od dementia...
ReplyDeleteThank you for kind and sensitive thoughts, Karen. Happy New Year to you and yours.
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